Somatic Relationship Guides & Speakers · Augusta, Western Australia
It is not you. It is your nervous system.
And we can finish it.
Can we let you in on something?
The people who are meant to love you already want to. The partner you want to become exists. You just need your nervous system to stop running the old programme — and start finishing what it started.
That is what we do.
Hi. We're Sara & Mark.
We are not experts who studied this from the outside. We lived it — both sides of it. Sara worked the overfunctioning side. Mark worked the freeze and shutdown side.
We are the before and after. Not happy guides with a framework. People who walked the road and know the way out.
We guide individuals and couples through the same journey — from the body up. Because the pattern that keeps repeating is not a thinking problem. It never was.
Is this you?
No matter how much work you do — the pattern follows. You attract someone with potential, it fades before it commits, and you start again. Somewhere along the way you stopped trusting your own judgement.
You do not have a picker problem. You have a nervous system that keeps choosing what feels familiar — even when familiar is painful.
The desire has faded. The connection that felt effortless now takes work — and the work does not seem to stick. You keep having the same fights. Or you have stopped fighting altogether and started coexisting.
Nobody did anything wrong. The old patterns just caught up — and until the body completes them, they keep running the relationship.
Work with us
Where you start depends on where you are. Where you go is entirely up to you.
Six questions that show you the pattern you keep repeating — and raise your standards enough to say no to what you used to accept. The beginning of everything.
Break the pattern in your body that keeps real love out — so you stop repeating it with the next person. A recorded live somatic workshop. This is where the body work begins.
Stop repeating the pattern that keeps love out. Monthly somatic and identity work, live calls every two weeks, and a community of people doing the real thing. For singles and couples.
Private 1:1 coaching and in-person immersions at our sanctuary in Augusta, WA. For the individual or couple ready for the deepest work in the most held container we offer. By application only.
Speaking & Events
We run somatic relationship workshops and keynotes for other communities, events and retreats. We have run events that have changed rooms.
If your audience is ready for the real conversation — about love, patterns, and the body — we are ready to come to them. Every workshop is designed specifically for your audience.
Tell us about your event. We will be in touch within 48 hours.
Results
"I felt as if I had never truly breathed properly before — because of everything I had been holding inside for so long. Once you begin this kind of inner work, you never want to go backwards again."
"There were so many voices and thoughts clouding the sky. All clear now. I have officially resigned from my job and I am turning my focus to building my own business. The session was brilliant."
"I have been feeling a lot calmer and focused. I have already made moves with the career decision which has resulted in me sleeping better and just a calm knowing that I will be fine."
Before you invest in anything
We both write from inside our own experience — our relationship, our journey, and the work we do with clients. No frameworks. No curated advice. The thing you have been looking for but could not find anywhere else.
The space where women who are done surviving come home to themselves. Raw, real, no sugarcoating. Every essay will name something you have been living but could not say out loud.
"The article I read last week made me feel seen in a way therapy never did. I subscribed immediately."
A reader · Perth, WA
For the man done suffering in silence and ready to come back to his power. Honest, direct, and written by someone who has lived every word of it. No performance. Just truth.
"I have never read anything that described my experience so exactly. I sent it to three men I know immediately."
A reader · Melbourne, VIC
Read the work. Feel what it does. Then decide if you want to go deeper.
Group Programme · Open Now
Stop repeating the pattern that keeps love out and become the person who attracts and keeps the relationship you actually want. For singles and couples. Through the body and the identity — not just conversation.
Join The School →Live calls every two weeks · The vault · Somatic + identity work · For singles and couples
Work With Us 1:1
Private 1:1 work with Sara and Mark. In person or online. For the individual or couple ready to do the deepest work in the most held container we offer.
Apply below and we will be in touch within 48 hours.
Apply Now →With Sara
1:1 Sanctuary
Identity and somatic work for the overfunctioning woman ready to become unbothered.
With Mark
1:1 Men's Work
Somatic and breathwork for the man ready to come back to himself and step into his power.
With Sara & Mark
Couples Intensive
Both sides of the work, together. For couples ready to stop performing the relationship and start living it.
Ready?
Apply for private 1:1 coaching with Sara or Mark — or both. We review every application personally and respond within 48 hours.
Apply for 1:1 Coaching →or email hello@teamunfiltered.com
Recorded Training · Available Now
Somatic Training · $47 AUD
Break the pattern in your body that keeps real love out — with Sara and Mark. A recorded somatic training you can start right now.
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